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Young People and Giving

There are a number of things that get people riled up about at church. Money is definitely one of them. People get uncomfortable when they hear the preacher teach on the topic of tithing. I’ve heard on numerous occasions the response to this teaching is “the church just wants our money”. This topic was actually addressed at our church this past Sunday and to be honest I think the Sr. Pastor did a really good job of addressing this

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. I’ve done alot of thinking on this topic since YC. At YC they took an offering for funds to go towards running YCs in Malawi and Belize. There were approximately 17, 000 youth that attended YC and they raised $57,000 for this cause, which works out to about $3.40/person. Though the people on stage seemed impressed by this-I was not. Look at it this way, most of the kids there spent over $100 buying CDs, T-shirts and the like. Even lunch costs more than $3.40! Couple this with the $125 registration fee, you are heading towards $150-$300 for this conference all up and yet they only give a meagre few bucks? Are our youth taught about tithing from both parents and youth leaders alike? To be honest, I myself have not really talked to my youth about this. Part of the reason why I haven’t done this is that I just assumed that teens know about tithing (my parents taught me about tithing), or perhaps I assumed that they have no money to give. But the more I look at it, my assumptions were wrong. The spiritual discipline of tithing is rarely brought up (though some churches/parents do) and obviously in seeing how much was spent over the weekend, the youth have a lot of expendable income!

As parents, do you talk about tithing with your children and teens? How do you set the example?

As pastors/youth pastors, do you talk about tithing with the children and teens? How do you encourage them to give?

Also see my first lot of thoughts on YC in Free Hugs and Modesty

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Free Hugs and Modesty

I must admit for the most part I really enjoyed YC this year especially the music and the time that I got to spend with our church’s teens. However, one thing that really bothered me both this year and last was the lack of modesty amongst teen girls and the blatant ‘cop a feel’ attitude of teen boys. Obviously, not all teen fell into these categories, but there were lots of low cut tops and short shorts/skirts to be seen. Amongst the boys, many a “free hug” signs were seen-signs displayed in hopes of physical contact with any willing female. Really I think that these guys with “free hug” signs is a symptom of the lack of modesty displayed by the girls. And no-I’m not condoning the actions of the boys, I really wish I could give each one a smack on the back of the head, but if I did that-I’d be posting this blog from behind bars! I really appreciate C.J. Mahaney’s thoughts on the issue of modesty through what Paul writes in 1 Timothy 2:9:

“Any biblical discussion of modesty begins by addressing the heart, not the hemline. We must start with the attitude of the modest woman. This emphasis on the heart is front and center in 1 Timothy 2:9. Note the phrase ‘with modesty and self-control.’ All respectable apparel is the result of a godly heart, where modesty and self-control originate. Your wardrobe is a public statement of your personal and private motivation. And if you profess godliness, you should be concerned with cultivating these twin virtues, modesty and self-control.

Modesty means propriety. It means avoiding clothes and adornment that are extravagant or sexually enticing. Modesty is humility expressed in dress. It’s a desire to serve others, particularly men, by not promoting or provoking sensuality. Immodesty, then, is much more than wearing a short skirt or low-cute top; it’s the act of drawing undue attention to yourself. It’s pride, on display by what you wear. Self-control is, in a word, restraint. Restraint for the purpose of purity; restraint for the purpose of exalting God and not ourselves. Together, these attitudes of modesty and self-control should be the hallmark of the godly woman’s dress.”

Mahaney, Worldliness, Pages 119-120

I think it’s important as youth leaders and parents, regardless of the amount of rebellion we get back, to cultivate these virtues of modesty and self-control amongst the young ladies that we minister to/parent. It is also important for us to show young men how to treat the opposite sex with respect and with the attitude that they are sisters in Christ, not just ‘pieces of meat’ that serve only to satisfy their desires. We need to be fervent in praying for protection from temptation for our young men and women as this can be a huge stumbling block for them.

I will continue with some more thought’s on my time at YC – stayed tuned… it will be positive!

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